Advice for your next relationship.

Don’t tell her you love her, unless you mean it.

Don’t tell her you miss her. Unless your actions can prove it.

Text her. Even though you don’t feel like it, I guarantee, she thought all day and night about you; the least you can do is let her know that you are doing the same. Over and over. Tell her even though you told her yesterday. The day before and the day before that.

If you love her, fucking fight for her. It’s so easy to misunderstand people in our fast paced world. If she did something to piss you off, fine go blow off steam, but make sure when you come back, you talk about it. I guarantee you, she doesn’t want you to be miserable. She wants things to get better between you. Don’t shut down and shut her out.

I know, I KNOW you have been through hell and back. I know because I could feel it. Don’t laugh. You never had to tell me. I already knew the pain. I wanted you to tell me on your time but that didn’t happen for obvious reasons.

I knew when you said that you missed me, that it wasn’t sincere. I knew you said it because it was a habit. That isn’t a criticism. That is me telling you that it broke my heart; I knew in that moment that it was over.

When you start a relationship, it has to be real. You have to want it, to make it work. And by wanting it, you have to be invested in doing the work that it takes to be in it. Sincerity will wipe away almost every slight, scar, infraction. Because if she knows that you want her, if she knows that you love her with everything that you are, she isn’t going to go anywhere.

Don’t sell yourself short. You are an amazing guy. You are. She will be so lucky when you do decide to put both feet in. Please, as a favor to me; please put both feet in for her. You are worth the result.

~ by goddess4ever on November 21, 2018.

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